Rick, I'm holding a vcg right now. Unopened. Bought it for some pending work. The part number is bmw 111 290 70531. It does not have nipples where your pencil points to as well. I can't remember now if my head has that but i don't believe it does.
I don't think this is mission critical, considering that my new vcg doesn't have it (so probably my head doesnt either). Perhaps you could cutt off and sand down the nipples on the gasket that you have, or have it exchanged. ?