Wow I feel bad for you. I have been looking at Certified cars out of state and your problem is tremendously upsetting.
I would find out if there is a law in MO that covers recently sold cars.
I would have an attorney speak on my behalf with the selling dealership GM.
Man I hope this can get a clear resolution.
94 530i sold (That was difficult for me)
01 530i >144,500+ miles SOLD
06 330XI winter's especially fun drive (SOLD)
10 M3 Sedan (sweet)
13 Nissan GT-R Black Edition
14 Porsche Cayenne Platinum Diesel