I had leather conditioner from when I bought my leather coat as per the instructions on the bottle I wiped the steering wheel with a soft cloth soaked in warm water, dried the wheel and then I applied the conditioner on the wheel ( smeared on with my fingers and covered it to a point just before it dripped off) I left it on went back 30 minutes later and to my surprise the conditioner had soaked in and the wheel was completely dry. I repeated this 3 more times and every-time the conditioner had soaked in. Seems weird the leather must have been completely dry. I will repeat a few more times and see if this softens the wheel.
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