If you're confused, go to the dealer and buy OEM. Despite the dust, it's a solid choice.
For me, Balo rotors and Axxis Deluxe pads have served me well over the years, on two different BMWs and a Benzo. IMHO, there's a LOT of marketing hype floating around concerning brakes.
Where did you pick up this "bite" thing? Don't you want the brake operation to be linear?
Ed in San Jose '97 540i 6 speed aspensilber over aubergine leather. Build date 3/97. Golden Gate Chapter BMW CCA Nr 62319.