Thats an easy one. 100% go bigger engine over DHP but you can't add DHP without the sport package so there really is no choice. The sport seats are great so not sure why your wife didn't like them. It sounds like you already placed your order so you know this. You made the right choice with a 35i. Is this what you ordered?
2013 X3 35i M Sport / PREMIUM / DHP / TECH / COLD 1 & 11 / AW / OYSTER
Last edited by Jen4BMW; 09-25-2012 at 08:34 AM.