Agree. Nuts that a $50k car wouldn't come with xenon lights. Admittedly i used to feel same way that you had to get a package with bmw to get auto dimming mirrors... But i dont think that is the case anymore. Either way i always end up going berzerk when selecting options like a kid in the andy store. I think i watched too much Knight Rider as a kid.
Current: '13 550i xdrive, '15 X5 xdrive 50i, '11 M3 convertible
Ordered: '15 650i xdrive Gran Coupe
Past: '12 X5 xdrive 35d, '06 650i convertible, '04 Z4 convertible, '10 E550, '11 335i convertible