So, it sounds like the error was at the dealer, not the factory. So far this dealer has made an error on the order form, then lied about it by blaming the factory, and now is not great at returning phone calls.
How much more customer abuse do you take before walking away from this dealer and buying elsewhere? Not acceptable, and indicative of the future with these people.
I know it's frustrating to start over, but I certainly would do that in this case.
2012 135i Coupe,Jet Black, MSport, 6MT, Prem, Exec,Nav
Gone: 2012 135i Coupe,LeMans Blue, MSport, DCT, Prem
Gone: 2011 X35i, Vermillion Red, MSport.
Gone: 2007 328xiTouring, Barbera Red, Lemon, 6MT.
Gone: 2009 M3 Sedan, Alpine White, Black Novillo, M-DCT.
Gone: 2008 535xi, Alpine White, Black Dakota, MSport.
Long Gone: 11 other BMWs between 1971 and 1986.