You won't regret them with young children. I'm in the same situation (four kids <10). It will save you from having to follow them or having them re-close doors.
Originally Posted by KingpenM3
Thanks for all the responses. Plenty to look over now. It's funny how people either love or hate the soft close doors. I'm past the baby stage (where they are recommended), but I have 3 small girls that I don't want to have to go behind to re shut their doors, so I'm still not sure. I'm still wondering about the ceramic controls, haven't seen them in person to see the improvement.
Current: 2013 535i M Sport, Imperial Blue, Black Nappa, Premium/Technology/Cold Weather/DA/DA+/Ceramic Controls/Premium Sound
Retired: 2001 E39 530i Sport, 1976 2002