Lots of weight, 4 four people in the car. No self leveling. I'm assuming lots of gear. No, I wouldn't do it. Even if the diesel would still pull the hell out of it.
2008 X5 4.8i Space Gray/Tobacco, Premium, Sport (includes AD), Active Steering, HUD, Tech, Comfort, Cold, Climate Package, 3rd Row, Prem Audio, running boards, OEM hitch
2005 X5 4.8is Imola Red, Nav, Nappa, Comfort seats, OEM hitch
2004 X5 4.4i Sport (sold)
2004 X3 3.0i 6MT (sold)
2002 M5 (sold)