Good news Bluetooth working!
Bluetooth working! Located and unplugged TCU as instructed. Did not work right away. Wasn't sure if needed to be in 1st on ignition or car on. Tried both - nothing. Started process over again but also checked fuses again Looked at fuse panel # 7 in glove compartment and rear panel fuses #72 and 73. They all looked good so put them back. Feeling defeated i connected the TCU back started the car YES! Activate phone was there. Huge smile. Thank you