I received a response from my sales associate:
"As to the light on the garage opener that is shown on the underside of the mirror next to the buttons on both the video and the owner's manual. BMW made a running change in the system where the light in IN THE FACE OF THE MIRROR right above the buttons at the lower edge of the mirror. They have not caught up with the documentation with the owner's manual or the video. Simply push one of the buttons and you will see the amber light illuminate. All the function of the programming is the same it is just the light is moved!"
I did not see a light when I tried to program it, but will look more carefully.