I am very sorry to hear of your misfortune. I will say that the third picture the poor paint job is pretty evident, and I do believe that you deserve retribution.
My question; you say you went in for simple chips, nicks, and scratches, but the only part of your car that I can tell has been repainted is the rear fender. I would think that if you were having chips repaired the front bumper would be the first thing repainted. Please explain.