From memory all '30' terminals have battery voltage on them all the time. The control system (there are several) will pull in the relay to energise whatever may be on the end of the output wire - ie fuel pump.
Good - Fast - Cheap: Pick any two.
E23 735i; E30 318i; E32 735iL (X 2 - 1 Alpine White and 1 Glacier Blue); E34 535i; E38 735iL; R50 Cooper; R55 Cooper Clubman.
E21 318i; E32 735iL; E34 535i; E38 730iL; E53 4.4i