Don't really have an answer to your question about parting with the car, but regarding the lemon question - lemon laws only apply to original owners of new cars.
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2006 330i Sonora w/ ActiveAutoWerke flash tune :-)
2004 330i ZHP Imola/NB - missed
2000 328i TiAg - gone but not forgotten
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