Attached is my quote for $5102.01 worth of work.
A few of the things on this list are the same as the OP's list but cheaper. But, the OP does live in NoVA and everything costs 120% as much there.
Dealerships will always try to get you with something. I'm having them replace my center driveshaft bearing right now, but if you look at the list they wanted to replace my oil cap and there's no reason for that. I like the diagnostic sheets, but you really have to wade through it and tell them what you want and what you don't. A lot of the prices aren't bad, they just throw a bunch of unnecessary stuff in there. Jiffy Lube does the same thing, they're just not as smart about it...
"The first step to failure is trying" -Homer Simpson