Thanks, I think you're correct. The configure page for 2013 M3s at BMW's site lists the options/packages as you state. "Smoker's Package" and "Lights Package" are missing from the config page for 2013 M3s. Are they standard now?
BTW: I haven't been able to get the garage door opener on the mirror to work yet... All communication between my garage remote and programming the mirror's buttons work as the manual says, complete with the feedback buttons flashing slow/fast. But it just won't open my garage door! Any hints?