So sorry to hear that.
I do not like that the top view is a sub-option choice. When I originally ordered mine the top view showed up that they selected it when ordering the car. Two weeks later, when I stopped by the dealership trying to figure out some news about the updated iDrive, we noticed that it did not save the sub-option for top view. Since we caught it before production they were able to add it back again.
I would hold out for a new one that is 100% as you like it. One month now is worth it over the years of ownership.
2014 X3 35i. Vermillion Red Metallic, Leather Nevada Mojave, Fineline Wave Wood, M Sport Package, Cold Weather Package, Driver Assistance Package with Top View, Dynamic Handling Package, Premium Package, Technology Package, Rear Manual Side Window Shades (for my new little baby girl
Retired 2008 335 xi