We ended up purchasing a '13 X3 28i fully loaded. Unfortunately within hrs of driving it off the lot we got a message on the rear camera malfuntioning but we still had a good image on the display. We'll take it to the dealer in time but for now that's the only problem.
Overall, really like the vehicle and hope it's fairly reliable. I have no illusions of it being Honda reliable but hope it isn't a main nightmare.