What's wrong with flirting?

"I've looked at on lot of women with lust. I've committed adultery in my heart many times."
Jimmy Carter

If 2 people want to flirt a little, so be it.

I never cheated in my life, but I sure have done what Jimmy did.

So what's half this board's problem?

There is nothing wrong with flirting.

like watching people make out in public, when it's pretty much constant it's VERY annoying. It should be done through PM's rather than public so the rest of us can be spared the BS. Oh well, back to another message board for me.

Oh, and IBTL

Originally Posted by teh_jev

like watching people make out in public, when it's pretty much constant it's VERY annoying. It should be done through PM's rather than public so the rest of us can be spared the BS. Oh well, back to another message board for me.

Oh, and IBTL

Well stated.

Originally Posted by teh_jev

like watching people make out in public, when it's pretty much constant it's VERY annoying. It should be done through PM's rather than public so the rest of us can be spared the BS. Oh well, back to another message board for me.

Oh, and IBTL

What do you mean?


You mean if they kiss and hold hands you like it, but if they are doing a clothed pre-coital ritual, you don't like it?

Originally Posted by SmoothCruise

What do you mean?


You mean if they kiss and hold hands you like it, but if they are doing a clothed pre-coital ritual, you don't like it?

I didn't say I liked any of it however a couple holding hands is much less obnoxious and annoying to me than a couple dry humping on a bench in the mall.

Small signs of affection in public are cute and it's nice to see peopel that are happy together. When you're pretty much at 3rd base for all the world to see, that's taking it way too far.

In the case of an internet message board I find it a bit presumptuous for one to think that the rest of the community somehow enjoys watching one e-hump and worship each other in almost every thread that the couple happens to post in. Most message boards I've been in have a private messaging capability and most everyone I know has some sort of IM or telephone that can be used for the more personal stuff to be said over rather than hanging it all out in front of everyone all of the time.

So, having said that, If I posted that you looked sexy in the picture you just put up, that's much like holding hands but if we follow each other around and flirt with each other in almost every single thread we find ourselves in, that's taking it way too far and we should just cyb0r s3x0rz over IM or something.

Originally Posted by SmoothCruise

What do you mean?


You mean if they kiss and hold hands you like it, but if they are doing a clothed pre-coital ritual, you don't like it?

Ah yes, clothed pre-coital rituals. I like those. What was the question again?

Originally Posted by teh_jev

like watching people make out in public, when it's pretty much constant it's VERY annoying.

I don't mind seeing people making out in public. Have to admit I've done it myself.

Originally Posted by 1Dreamer

I don't mind seeing people making out in public. Have to admit I've done it myself.

I've done it before many times when I was a teenager. There are differences though b/w a peck on the lips or dry humping on the park bench. Where you are also plays a big part of it. If you're in a romantic place and just got engaged, a couple enjoying a sensual kiss would be all part of the mood and be within the realm of reason. Standing in the Hallmark store while a couple are finger banging each other would be a bit out of line...unless of course they were hot lesbian chicks.

Originally Posted by teh_jev

I've done it before many times when I was a teenager. There are differences though b/w a peck on the lips or dry humping on the park bench. Where you are also plays a big part of it. If you're in a romantic place and just got engaged, a couple enjoying a sensual kiss would be all part of the mood and be within the realm of reason. Standing in the Hallmark store while a couple are finger banging each other would be a bit out of line...unless of course they were hot lesbian chicks.

...I just can't top that!

Originally Posted by teh_jev

I've done it before many times when I was a teenager. There are differences though b/w a peck on the lips or dry humping on the park bench. Where you are also plays a big part of it. If you're in a romantic place and just got engaged, a couple enjoying a sensual kiss would be all part of the mood and be within the realm of reason. Standing in the Hallmark store while a couple are finger banging each other would be a bit out of line...unless of course they were hot lesbian chicks.

So now I'm not sure whether you've turned down all my advances because you don't find me hot or because you just don't like PDAs.

Originally Posted by teh_jev

like watching people make out in public, when it's pretty much constant it's VERY annoying. It should be done through PM's rather than public so the rest of us can be spared the BS. Oh well, back to another message board for me.

Oh, and IBTL

This thread is hilarious, particularly Jever.

Who are we talking about though?

Originally Posted by BmW745On19's

Who are we talking about though?

don't go gettin it locked now, would ya?

Originally Posted by obmd1

don't go gettin it locked now, would ya?

I ain't sayin' nuttin'.

Originally Posted by MrAirbags

There is nothing wrong with flirting.

+1 Flirting is fun. Baggage OTOH can be quite troubling.

Teh Jev..

U r da man. I do agree with that wisdom.

Can I hire u as my Life Counselor?

God knows I need one!

Originally Posted by lao270

So what's half this board's problem?

People read too much into it

Wow....How come I never see Lesbians finger bang each other in line at hallmark? I would bust out my camera right away!!!

Originally Posted by monkey211

Wow....How come I never see Lesbians finger bang each other in line at hallmark? I would bust out my camera right away!!!

...at a hallmark store muchacho?

Originally Posted by SSIMON

...at a hallmark store muchacho?

Buying 'thank you' cards for the gangbang?

Originally Posted by CaliJeff

Buying 'thank you' cards for the gangbang?

Was there a gangbang, where?

Is it OK to flirt in front of your SO?

Originally Posted by monkey211

Wow....How come I never see Lesbians finger bang each other in line at hallmark? I would bust out my camera right away!!!

I guess it is rather commonplace in the greater LA area. I haven't seen anything like that in the malls by our house.

not sure why, but the question made me think of this movie quote:

Let me give you a little inside information about God. God likes to watch. He's a prankster. Think about it. He gives man instincts. He gives you this extraordinary gift, and then what does He do, I swear for His own amusement, his own private, cosmic gag reel, He sets the rules in opposition. It's the goof of all time. Look but don't touch. Touch, but don't taste. Taste, don't swallow. Ahaha. And while you're jumpin' from one foot to the next, what is he doing? He's laughin' His sick, f-ckin' ass off. He's a tight-ass. He's a sadist. He's an absentee landlord. Worship that? Never.