I lost her

I am such an idiot.

We had communicated well through music

What songs can I use to get her back?

Someday - Nickleback
Come Back To Me - David Cook

Others?

Someday says "I'm going to make it alright but not right now" so I don't think you'll want to use that.

What about I'll be your man - James Blunt

"Don't Go Away Mad (Just Go Away)" - Mötley Crüe

"Too Drunk to ****" - Buck Cherry

"Something in Your Mouth" - Nickelback

"10 Seconds to Love" - Mötley Crüe

"Addicted" - Saving Abel

"She Goes Down" - Mötley Crüe

"Wango Tango" - Ted Nugent

"Nookie" - Limp Bizkit

"Why Don't We Get Drunk" - Jimmy Buffet

Originally Posted by GarySL

He looks like Al Gore.

+1

Anything but Taylor Swift.

The Postal Service " Clark Gable " or "Nothing Better"

So you lost your girlfriend and you think playing her just the right song will get her back?

My advice, learn from your mistakes and move on. You didn't lose her because you played the wrong song or didn't play a song at all. You lost her for some other reason so fix that. You say you communicated well throug music, there's your problem. Try communicating well through voice conversation face to face.

Originally Posted by uwhusky

So you lost your girlfriend and you think playing her just the right song will get her back?

My advice, learn from your mistakes and move on. You didn't lose her because you played the wrong song or didn't play a song at all. You lost her for some other reason so fix that. You say you communicated well throug music, there's your problem. Try communicating well through voice conversation face to face.

Thank you for the session Dr. I was hoping someone who knew us as well as you do would chime in.

Originally Posted by scott_h

thank you for the session dr. I was hoping someone who knew us as well as you do would chime in.

+1

"Beautiful Love" - The Afters

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You could always try Sinatra.

I'm actually giving you good advice and a few months down the road you'll realize it. Women are not attracted to men chasing after them and who appear desperate and send them love songs. Women are attracted to strength and confidence and in any situation like this I'd suggest to the guy to be confident, act like you can move on as easily as she can, when you're around her be happy and enjoy yourself and don't act like you're devastated and you're more likely to get her back.

Originally Posted by uwhusky

I'm actually giving you good advice and a few months down the road you'll realize it. Women are not attracted to men chasing after them and who appear desperate and send them love songs. Women are attracted to strength and confidence and in any situation like this I'd suggest to the guy to be confident, act like you can move on as easily as she can, when you're around her be happy and enjoy yourself and don't act like you're devastated and you're more likely to get her back.

Not really sure I agree about acting like I can move on easily, but this might actually be good advice.

Thank you.

Originally Posted by Scott_H

Not really sure I agree about acting like I can move on easily, but this might actually be good advice.

Thank you.

I don't think it is a good advice in your case. It would be a good advice if you are chasing after someone who doesn't show interest. But in her case according to you she is or was very interested in you to the degree that she wanted you to commit. If you act now as if you can move on, you will just prove to her that she was right about you not being ready to commit.

You might do better to forget all these head games and try to have an honest and open conversation with her and tell her that you want to commit. Head games that late into your relationship is just that. Games. And a serious girl will not appreciate that. She needs to be reassured by you. Not to get her mind confused back into relationship with you.

But you will need to do this quickly because you would be surprised how fast a girl can erase you from her mind and move on once she decides to move on.

You better ask some of the female members here for an advice. And of course, I might be completely wrong. I don't know the two of you after all.

Originally Posted by Scott_H

I am such an idiot.

We had communicated well through music

Rather than make a random selection, if we knew how to narrow it down it might be better. In an effort to pick the right song can you elaborate on:

Why do you believe you are an idiot?

Did you not communicate well through everything else? What stuck out as a factor that you don't think was good communication?