bluetooth pairing for 2004 x5 - HELP!!!

hi,

I've been reading all the forums regarding bluetooth but nothing says that you can sync a cell phone to a X5 without a nav.

I have a 2004 x5 without navigation but it has all the features for a cell phone in it: mics, R/T button on the steering wheel, Telephone button on the dash. Given all that, i tried to connect my Samsung Instinct with the car but can't seem to search for the car (it doesn't show it). Is it some that i am doing wrong or is it my car doesn't have bluetooth (if so, then why have all those buttons in the car)? please help..


Thanks
VT