I know this topic has been discussed to painful lengths but just to let everyone know dealers now have the BMW re-mapping software to change how the start/stop system works so the last setting is memorized not defaulted every time. Thank you BMW!
My vehicle went in this week for reprogramming but it does take 4-6 hours as all the software A to Z needs to be reloaded. I was not charged for the work either and received a loaner.
2013 X3 35i M Sport / PREMIUM / DHP / TECH / COLD 1 & 11 / AW / OYSTER