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Old 10-05-2012, 01:14 PM
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Let's pull some 1991 stuff in here:

"'Til Death Do Us Part" by White Lion. No official video? Crap.
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Old 10-05-2012, 01:29 PM
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Old 10-07-2012, 12:16 PM
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I'm actually giving you good advice and a few months down the road you'll realize it. Women are not attracted to men chasing after them and who appear desperate and send them love songs. Women are attracted to strength and confidence and in any situation like this I'd suggest to the guy to be confident, act like you can move on as easily as she can, when you're around her be happy and enjoy yourself and don't act like you're devastated and you're more likely to get her back.
Not really sure I agree about acting like I can move on easily, but this might actually be good advice.

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Old 10-07-2012, 12:41 PM
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Not really sure I agree about acting like I can move on easily, but this might actually be good advice.

Thank you.
I don't think it is a good advice in your case. It would be a good advice if you are chasing after someone who doesn't show interest. But in her case according to you she is or was very interested in you to the degree that she wanted you to commit. If you act now as if you can move on, you will just prove to her that she was right about you not being ready to commit.

You might do better to forget all these head games and try to have an honest and open conversation with her and tell her that you want to commit. Head games that late into your relationship is just that. Games. And a serious girl will not appreciate that. She needs to be reassured by you. Not to get her mind confused back into relationship with you.

But you will need to do this quickly because you would be surprised how fast a girl can erase you from her mind and move on once she decides to move on.

You better ask some of the female members here for an advice. And of course, I might be completely wrong. I don't know the two of you after all.
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Old 10-07-2012, 12:47 PM
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We communicated well in all areas, music was just something we both loved and used to send each other.

I'm an idiot because I waited too long to commit. She got tired of waiting, can't blame her.
I don't think you're an idiot for waiting to commit

I waited nearly 10 years to get married to my wife
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Old 10-09-2012, 10:22 AM
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So if you lost her by not committing, can you get her back by being ready or proving to her that you're committed? I'm assuming we're talking marriage here? If not, what kind of commitment was she looking for and if you're ready to give her that commitment, then would she come back?
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I am such an idiot.

We had communicated well through music

What songs can I use to get her back?

Someday - Nickleback
Come Back To Me - David Cook

Others?
If everything was as good as you remember it and you lost her because you wouldn't commit, then go and get her back!

Make the committment you were afraid to make...go tell her how you feel. Don't leave anything out, say it with conviction, and hold your head high. Be confident. She will give you another chance if you can show her that you are ready to do what you need to do. A song won't do it....you need to think big.
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Old 10-09-2012, 08:45 PM
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Make the committment you were afraid to make...go tell her how you feel. Don't leave anything out, say it with conviction, and hold your head high. Be confident. She will give you another chance if you can show her that you are ready to do what you need to do. A song won't do it....you need to think big.
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A song won't do it....you need to think big.
Yea, but it can still help, especially when performed in a right way:



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