Heat and Defroster

Hello All. Mornings are starting to become chilly. It’s become a challenge to get some heat going. (Heated seats, the cats meow) but I noticed a few things. The (*) light is always on and if you try to turn it off, “Jarvis” pops it back on. Does this stop the car from trying to heat the cabin?

When I turn on my Defrosters and try to turn them off thinking things are good, they too are back on. Is this normal? The manual explains the name and location of all the hvac controls but not how they should be working.
Please advise.