2011 328 I headlights

So I have a 328i base model and I really need help modifying it I want to add some flare to it , first thing comes to mind is the headlights, I was looking at a 2011 3 series coupe and I noticed the difference in my headlights and the coupes headlights doesn't anyone know why there different and how I can get my lights and especially my angel eyes to l like that ?

Second I would like to add some sort of body kits or maybe a spoiler does anyone know a website or any good pictures that I can base my self off of ?

Thanks again guys really appreciate. It . I'll post some pics of my car and color if needed

Be careful what you post...some people on here will be very rude about things like body kits and spoilers. And I'm in the same boat with the headlights, the problem is none are really high quality other then the 1000 dollar ones.

Yeah I was thinking that , if I ever use the wrong word for a certain car part or something there's goin to be people who are going to be make it a big deal but yeah ill learn BMW language haha thanks though .