I'm really sorry about your brother. It must be really hard as it was sudden. Andy was sick for 7 1/2 months, and we had ample time to get used to the idea that he may not make it, and to say good-bye. He died the day after MY brother's birthday. Weird, huh? He was about three weeks from his birthday, and would have been 24. One of the things that I've learned is that we have to keep going. The only other choice is to give up, and I don't think that would be good. Wow, all this profound stuff before my coffee! Have a good day.