BMW did not do a bad job designing and manufacturing the N62 engine. There are several common failure points that are very well documented. Overall, the engine is very stout and, although some N62s do require fairly complicated fixes over their lifetime (for example, the valve stem seals that ABCarr mentioned), the block and head are very stout and rarely require rebuilds.
However, you did a bad job researching and performing due diligence before purchasing a vehicle that, as most N62 E60 owners would agree, is not a good car to own for people who either cannot perform a majority of the maintenance themselves, or have deep pockets to pay a competent mechanic to perform repairs. As you had a purported "specialist" out to look at the car, it sounds to me like this car may not be a good fit for you. That doesn't mean it's a bar car with a bad engine, as you assume.
There are several red flags in the assessment you posted. How is the technician determining that the oil temperature is high? Did they come with a scan tool or INPA and view oil temperature values? Are they aware that the car has a 105 degree thermostat from the factory? Why did they not mention coolant temperatures? The only reason I can think that the oil temperature would be high is if the car was overheating, which would obviously cause the coolant temperature to be high as well. Did they check the quantity of oil in the engine using the iDrive system? Low oil could cause low oil pressure, and your car doesn't have a dipstick. Did they do any basic diagnoses to determine why the engine may be misfiring? It could be something as simple as one or more bad coil packs.
Valve cover gasket leaks are common on the N62, as they are on many engines from many manufacturers. They are actually a huge pain to change on the N62, although your engine will be a little easier than earlier models as there is no dipstick tube on the left bank to get in the way.
ABCarr is right. You need someone who actually knows what he or she is doing to take a look at this car. Alternately, you could read up on the N62, get INPA up and running, and perform more a more thorough assessment yourself. I personally doubt that the engine needs to be rebuilt. It is of course possible, but the poorly written, vague "diagnoses" your "specialist" provided leads me to believe that they know little about these engines and aren't interested in actually helping you figure out what is wrong.