so I pull in, put the car in park, hit the start/stop button. Radio stays on, etc. I get out of the car and can't lock it by putting my hand on the door handle. if I press the lock button on the fob, car turns everything off and locks. Am I doing something wrong? If i press and hold the start/stop button, car still doesn't shut down. If I press it twice, still doesn't. Is this all normal? And "switch off after door opening" doesn't do it obviously because I have that setup already.