1. It has an excellent wide angle backup camera, with projected track lines. I have the parking assist rairly use it. I would highly recommend the surround view, not sure what package it comes with but I love it when parking.
2. For me any vehicle capable of sub five second 0 to 60 is plenty fast for some others there is no such thing as too fast. In deciding between model year factor in future resale, one will always be a year older with yesterdays tech.
3. I would respectfully disagree with your color assessment, IMO, black is the fastest to show dirt White on the other hand is very forgiving. I have a nearby hand wash that is very reasonably. But I have used car washes in the past without seeing any damage.
4. The vehicle is amazing.