Ok, since I have a new fan clutch on its way, I went and bolted the current one,

well this is bad, engine temperatures are the same as before and transmission temperatures the same, the only difference for the transmission it will take a bit longer to get hot.
My routine test: get on the FWY 5 miles one way 70 to 80 mph then I turn around and punch the gas on the in ramp which is a bit up hill so that I can enter the FWY at 65 mph, then most of the way back is down hill so I push the gas just a bit so I keep the car on a coast at 70 to 80 mph, from time to time I use the kick down (2 times way back).
When I get off the FWY on the first light that is when I start getting the slipping (transmission at 230F - engine at 190F)
Whit the fan always engaged there were no difference for the Engine, but transmission was at 220F when I got off the FWY, temperatures kept going up on ever stop and go.
Findings: The transmission still getting hot, it looks like cooling can't keep-up.
After the test I park the car and monitor transmission temperature while car at idle. Transmission will start cooling at 2 degrees per 2-3 minutes.
Once again, what is getting the transmission hot?
Like I stated from the beginning, I need to explain this to the shop, they keep telling me that the transmission is fine, that if there are no codes that there is nothing wrong.
The third time I took the car there, they kept it for a week just to tell me the same thing.
WHAT CAN I DO - should I just take this guys to court?