Jon,
whether or not you "need" a relay depends on the current draw of the lamp and the contact rating of the switch.
The switch will certainly last longer if its only work is to pull in the coil of a relay. When you put the inrush current of the lamp (basically a short) through the switch every time you turn it on, the switch's contacts will eventually burn up.
Considering all the pains you're already taking with your car, my suggestion would be to use the relay and never have to look back.
whether or not you "need" a relay depends on the current draw of the lamp and the contact rating of the switch.
The switch will certainly last longer if its only work is to pull in the coil of a relay. When you put the inrush current of the lamp (basically a short) through the switch every time you turn it on, the switch's contacts will eventually burn up.
Considering all the pains you're already taking with your car, my suggestion would be to use the relay and never have to look back.