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Yeesh, some people take lane changes so seriously...

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So I'm running an errand today... Just driving along minding my own business... I come to a stop light with a fair amount of traffic and wait for it to change. The light turns green and I go along with my lane. The idiot to the right of me doesn't notice the light has changed for quite a while. Probably about ten seconds. Long enough for the people behind him to start honking. So he wakes up and floors it.

Now, at this point we're coming to a bottleneck where two lanes merge into one. I generally take a dim view of letting people in when they have shown that they have no grasp of what's going on around them. He tries to cut me off, but as he's in the yield lane, I don't let him in.

Get this... He follows me three miles to the CVS I was running to to pick up some tape and comes in to lecture me. I blow him off and tell him he's being utterly childish while I purchase my tape and he follows me into the parking lot. When I get into my car, he BLOCKS my door open and proceeds to attempt to tell me what a piece of shit my car is and how much better this unmentioned car he has in his driveway is. (I'd asked him if he was having jealousy issues when he wouldn't shut up inside the CVS... He was driving a Mitsubishi Trooper, an OLD one, probably ten years old or so.) So I asked him nicely, then progressively less nicely to get the **** off of my door. He wouldn't budge, even after I attempted to pull it shut and force him out of the way. Finally, I had to just start the car and put it in reverse AND START DRIVING TO GET HIM OFF OF MY CAR!!!

What is it with people? So ****ing immature. I wonder how he manages to survive if he takes it personally every time someone won't let him in. (Especially when he's attempting the let me come as close to ramming the car as possible and see if that'll get him to budge approach to merging.)

Yeesh.
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Cruzer said:

My suggestion: if you are in my "hood", do not get out of your car in anger and approach my car at all, for any reason. You're likely to be taking a dirt nap soon thereafter.
Well, things are a little "different" in Texas arn't they? So, by the last paragraph, you pack'in? Do you mean A car, or YOUR car?

In Boston, there's so much frigg'in red tape to get a gun, and your record has to be spotless - I mean ajax clean. And even if you do get a permit to carry and conceal, people would flip out if they saw you with a gun. Yet all the crooks have'em.

But this is the norm in some other places, like Vermont, and of course , Texas.
geomax said:


In Boston, there's so much frigg'in red tape to get a gun, and your record has to be spotless - I mean ajax clean. And even if you do get a permit to carry and conceal, people would flip out if they saw you with a gun. Yet all the crooks have'em.
Same here in New York beleive it or not . . . we just have a bad reputation . . .
geomax said:


Well, things are a little "different" in Texas arn't they? So, by the last paragraph, you pack'in? Do you mean A car, or YOUR car?
Please don't take this wrongly. I think it is important that people understand the circumstances under which they visit our wonderful state. When you are here, do not pull that "road rage" shiite or you will be risking your life.

Now to answer your question, here's my favorite German beauty:



Yes. I am licensed to carry. You gotta love Vermont. Only state where concealed carry is an absolute right, no license required.
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Alan F said:


Same here in New York beleive it or not . . . we just have a bad reputation . . .
I used to live in Vermont for a couple of years, and I was just amazed how easy it was to buy a gun. They sold them at the local gas stations next to the beef jerky, for cripes sake. 30-30's, 30-06, whatever cannon fits the bill. Handguns I think you had to wait 3 days, but thats it. Nothing unusual about gun racks in the pickups either - rarely saw just one hanging there - more likey 2 or 3.

Hunting is a religion up there. I had a job where I would visit people in the homes, and I was again amazed at the arsenals people had. There are 3 seasons - Rifle, blackpowder (ie, muskets), and Bow. And most homes had all three to get the most out of Bambi. Sheesh...

Vermont has also been in the news a lot for a number of homicides and other shootings....guess people are getting a little impatient to a little hunt'in...
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Cruzer said:


Please don't take this wrongly. I think it is important that people understand the circumstances under which they visit our wonderful state. When you are here, do not pull that "road rage" shiite or you will be risking your life.

Now to answer your question, here's my favorite German beauty:



Yes. I am licensed to carry. You gotta love Vermont. Only state where concealed carry is an absolute right, no license required.
Oh, I know - and I didn't. I was just kidding around. Texas IS different. I've only been there once, to the Dallas Fort Worth area. Unfortunately, didn't have much time to take in the sites. Did get over to Fort Worth to check out the Stock Yards. But there were tons of other places i wanted to see. They looked so close on the map, but damn - Texas is BIG!!

Is that a GLOCK?? I've thought that if I ever did get a handgun, I'd get a 9mm.
geomax said:
Vermont has also been in the news a lot for a number of homicides and other shootings....guess people are getting a little impatient to a little hunt'in...
That's just the news. Vermont has the fourth lowest homicide rate per capita after the Dakotas and Idaho, and 25% lower than Massachussetts.

BTW, my German companion is a Heckler und Koch, P7M8 (which is a 9mm). It is superbly engineered and one of the most expensive handguns on the market at $1,600 retail. Goes very well with my 530i. Nothing against Glock (Austrian Tupperware), but I don't own any Glocks.
You're lucky you're not dead. Sheesh. :tsk:
Alan F said:
Guys . . . there are consequences to not letting people in the lane or staring people down . . . most of the time it's nothing but sometimes it's a guy who tailgates you, other times it's an idiot who follows you, sometimes they key the car, etc. etc.

Just hope the A--hole isn't carrying a gun and decides to use it.

What do you need to prove yourself to this inconsiderate guy/kid for ? ?

I see no reason in the world to go out of my way to start trouble with people. When you guys come across idiots like this, just say to yourself that this idiot will get their's one day when they mess with the wrong guy . . . do you want to be THAT guy ?

Who the H*ll wants to be THAT guy, he's the one that ends up getting arrested and that little 5 minute incident now becomes a 5 month to 3 yr incident between getting charges pressed against you, getting sued for assault, possible Jail time, etc.

So next time you see that dummy who starts trouble, think to yourself that he has the problem not you and let it be HIS problem.

We all hear about crazy things on the news . . . let it be other people that go through that crap . . . we have our own families and friends to watch out for.
Alan, you are 100% correct on this one. There are too many crazy people out there with loaded pistols in their cars, personality disorders, and short tempers. I know this for a fact - I'm a lawyer and I've represented people like this before. Some of the cops I know have told me to NEVER stare anyone down, give anyone the finger, or block another car who is trying to cut you off, because they very well may have a weapon.

I follow that advice now - if someone is acting like an a**hole, I just say to myself, "better them than me", and let them go about their merry way. Believe me, what goes around, comes around - those jerks will get theirs one day. Be safe out there.
Dan said:


Alan, you are 100% correct on this one. There are too many crazy people out there with loaded pistols in their cars, personality disorders, and short tempers. I know this for a fact - I'm a lawyer and I've represented people like this before. Some of the cops I know have told me to NEVER stare anyone down, give anyone the finger, or block another car who is trying to cut you off, because they very well may have a weapon.

I follow that advice now - if someone is acting like an a**hole, I just say to myself, "better them than me", and let them go about their merry way. Believe me, what goes around, comes around - those jerks will get theirs one day. Be safe out there.
Ahh, so you're a lawyer...good, got a question for ya. Say the guy who got in Nicks face wasn't going to back down...from a legal viewpoint, what wouild Nick options be? What would be the best course of action to take??
Ask yourself this:

Is this a happy person who's had lots of things go right for them in life?

If you can answer yes, you'll probably be able to cut them off, give them the finger, etc. Without any repercussions.

I know this because, you'd be flipping me off.

Their life is allready in the crapper, so just sit back and let them continue to live in their world of hurt.

Happy content people don't wig out.... they live in a world of hurt already.... Existance for them is suffering...

(Course poppin' a cap in their ass might be a higher evolution of darwin's law. And in rare cases, does everyone a favor.)
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I think the big issue came when this guy blocked my car door open. (I loved it when I told him to please stop blocking my door and he said he wasn't before he got slammed into the side of my car for the SECOND time when I tried to close it.)
Getting in my face is one thing, but actively blocking me and holding my door open is more into the realm of the threatening.

This guy was seriously pathetic. Oily slob who was probably in his forties but looked like he was in his sixties.

I don't feel in any way bad that I didn't let him into my lane. He shot up from behind and tried to cut me off. Next time, however, I won't stop and give the twit an oportunity to try to mess with me.

His plate was MD M222555, in case anyone is interested. :p Brownish Isuzu Trooper, early nineties.
Don't deal with a**holes, sooner or later they run into other a**holes and one or both end up in jail or dead. Problem solved. Keep the gene pool clean.
Dan said:
I follow that advice now - if someone is acting like an a**hole, I just say to myself, "better them than me", and let them go about their merry way. Believe me, what goes around, comes around - those jerks will get theirs one day. Be safe out there.
Truly good advice. On my drive to and from work, there are several turning lanes where people purposely take the outside lane (to move up in line) and then cut the other people off to make it onto the freeway on-ramp (we all know places like this). It really takes a lot of patience to stay calm, because everyone knows these a*sholes are jumping ahead of everyone else willing to take the orderly route.

In any case, confrontation isn't an option for me anymore, like I did in my younger days. I have a family I need to get home to. I have a very expensive car that I don't need to put in danger's way. I don't want to harm anyone, no matter how big an as*hole they are. If a person is overly aggressive (like invading my lane), I do hold my own. But once I have outmaneuvered them, I stay out of their way. Usually, they will go on their way after flipping you off. Occasionally, they will pull alongside for a few miles (I ignore them). Rarely, they will follow you to your destination (happened to me once). If they do follow you, you need to stay aware of this (sounds like he surprised you). I usually take a few weird turns to lose them, or in the worst case head towards a police station parking lot. Never get out of your car, try to avoid eye contact if possible (turn up the radio and start singing). In the unlikely event you are cornered, consider whether you want it to be him or you, and choose your method of self-defense accordingly.

In the news article above, the SUV had cut off the Mercedes, so he was ahead of the Mercedes. He then allowed the Mercedes to cut him off and block him...that was his mistake. Once he saw the guy going crazy, honking his horn, etc., he should've taken the next turn and got away from him. Once he was cornered, he had no choice.
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Cruzer said:

In the unlikely event you are cornered, consider whether you want it to be him or you, and choose your method of self-defense accordingly.
See, there's the rub. A lot of this discussion is just semantics if you find yourself in this kind of position. You're about to get pounded...what "method" do you use -and this was my question to Dan- that has the least legal and personal consequences to BOTH parties?

I know a lot of women carry mace or pepper spray. That stuff is a pretty strong deterrant. It causes no permenant harm to the attacker, but definitely disables him for a good while - giving you a chance to get away. But again, in Massachusetts, you need to get a FID card to carry. Can you believe that?
geomax said:
See, there's the rub. A lot of this discussion is just semantics if you find yourself in this kind of position. You're about to get pounded...what "method" do you use -and this was my question to Dan- that has the least legal and personal consequences to BOTH parties?
Well, my 2 cents: If you know what the other person is bringing to the party, then pick a better weapon. If you don't know what the other person is bringing to the party, then bring a gun. In the vast majority of self-defense incidents where a gun is brandished, it is never fired (like over 97% of incidents). I would rather be fully prepared, and survive, than to be caught by surprise (mace is good, but no match for a gun). Talking about this is like talking about wills and life insurance, nobody wants to talk about it, but nobody wants to be caught uprepared.
Cruzer said:

Talking about this is like talking about wills and life insurance, nobody wants to talk about it, but nobody wants to be caught uprepared.
Thats the best .02 I've heard all day.
LOL...enough [email protected]!

geomax said:


Thats the best .02 I've heard all day.
geomax said:


got a question for ya. Say the guy who got in Nicks face wasn't going to back down...from a legal viewpoint, what wouild Nick options be? What would be the best course of action to take??
Geo: the answer varies depending upon the state you live in, so I can't give specific recommendations. The best thing to do would have been to call 911 back when Nick noticed the as*hole was following him. The 2nd best thing to do would have been to call 911 when the guy blocked the door. That's why you have a cell phone. 99% of these jerks will run when you call the police. Nick did the 3rd best thing - leave peacefully and avoid a fight.
I had an interesting experience one morning while going to work. There is a spot beyond a light that narrows from four lanes to two, much as Geo has experienced. I was in the yield lane (right), but I accelerated to move ahead of the car on the left. The Toyota CRV (with a flag and multiple stickers attached) was not about to give up the space without a race. I was slightly ahead, but not going to chop them of. While somewhat annoyed by the process, I looked at the woman riding in the passenger's seat and she produced a camera pointed directly at me. It was a strange feeling. She was aggitated, but nothing really happened except a short drag race. It seemed like a setup. They wanted me to try for the spot in front of them and they were going to be beligerent about it and somehow photograph me. We came to a light later, where I was going to turn right and as I went by I gave them another look and she produced the camera again. I guess she expected a familiar gesture (and it crossed my mind), but I just looked. Don't know what these people thought they were up to. I've seen the car since in the same place, but without the passenger.
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They weren't racing you - they were just trying to get pics of your M3! :D

SteveT said:
I had an interesting experience one morning while going to work. There is a spot beyond a light that narrows from four lanes to two, much as Geo has experienced. I was in the yield lane (right), but I accelerated to move ahead of the car on the left. The Toyota CRV (with a flag and multiple stickers attached) was not about to give up the space without a race. I was slightly ahead, but not going to chop them of. While somewhat annoyed by the process, I looked at the woman riding in the passenger's seat and she produced a camera pointed directly at me. It was a strange feeling. She was aggitated, but nothing really happened except a short drag race. It seemed like a setup. They wanted me to try for the spot in front of them and they were going to be beligerent about it and somehow photograph me. We came to a light later, where I was going to turn right and as I went by I gave them another look and she produced the camera again. I guess she expected a familiar gesture (and it crossed my mind), but I just looked. Don't know what these people thought they were up to. I've seen the car since in the same place, but without the passenger.
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